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saco-indonesia.com, Paranormal sekaligus politisi asal Partai Gerindra, Permadi Satrio Wiwoho, telah meramalkan bencana alam yang bertubi-tubi telah melanda Indonesia yang menandakan masa goro-goro akan muncul. Goro-goro juga merupakan peributan alam dan manusia yang sangat besar.
 
“Ini juga menunjukkan ada goro-goro yang akan muncul. Akan ada peributan alam dan peributan manusia yang besar. Akan menjadi semakin besar dan telah terjadi revolusi,” kata Permadi saat berbincang dengan Okezone, Senin (3/2/2014) kemarin malam.
 
Permadi juga menjelaskan, revolusi peributan manusia ini juga akan ditunjukan oleh berbagai aksi rakyat yang akan bangkit melawan pemerintah. Sementara revolusi peributan alam ditunjukan oleh berbagai letusan gunung merapi, ombak besar, banjir dimana-mana.
 
“Ini juga akan berlangsung sampai munculnya ‘Satrio Piningit’ muncul. Satrio ini calon pemimpin yang akan datang. Satrio Piningit ini seperti yang diramalkan dalam Jongko Joyoboyo,”terang Permadi.
 
Sayangnya, kata Permadi, calon pemimpin Satrio Piningit ini tidak disebutkan dalam ramalan kapan akan muncul. “Tidak disebutkan. Tapi yang jelas peributan alam ini akan semakin besar,”ucapnya.
 
Jongko Joyoboyo juga merupakan kumpulan ramalan yang dibuat oleh Prabu Jayabaya  pada abad 12. Satrio Piningit juga merupakan salah satu calon pemimpin dalam ramalan Jongko Joyoboyo yang akan memimpin bangsa.
 
Seperti yang diketahui, Indonesia saat ini sedang dilanda berbagai bencana seperti meletusnya Gunung Sinabung, sebanyak 19 gunung dengan status waspada, banjir, dan longsor di beberapa wilayah Indonesia.


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BENCANA MELANDA INDONESIA, INI KOMENTAR PERMADI

Orang-orang ini dikenal karena memiliki kebiasaan aneh ataupun kejadian unik yang dialaminya. Mulai dari orang yang tidak pernah tidur selama 30 tahun lebih! Ada pula pria yang punya kebiasaan aneh, yakni memakan benda-benda yang secara normal tak bisa dicerna tubuh manusia. Misalnya, sepeda, televisi, hingga pesawat Cessna 150. Astaga!

Berikut 6 pria paling aneh di muka bumi seperti dirangkum dari dari berbagai sumber:

1. Thai Ngoc, tidak tidur 30 tahun lebih

Pria Vietnam ini tak bisa tidur sejak menderita demam pada tahun 1973. Menurut media Vietnam, Thanh Nien, dia mengklaim tak pernah tidur selama 33 tahun. Selama itu, Thai Ngoc atau Hai Ngoc yang dilahirkan tahun 1942 ini menggunakan 'waktu luangnya' di malam hari untuk mengurusi lahan pertaniannya atau ronda menjaga lahannya dari pencuri. Ngoc memiliki lahan pertanian seluas 5 hektar yang terletak di wilayah kaki gunung di Que Trung, distrik Que Son, Thailand. Sehari-hari Ngoc sibuk bertani dan mengurusi hewan-hewan ternaknya, seperti ayam dan babi.

Anehnya, kesehatan Ngoc tidak terpengaruh dengan kebiasaan tidak bisa tidur tersebut. Sang istri pernah membawa Ngoc untuk memeriksakan kesehatannya dan dokter menyatakan, secara keseluruhan kondisi Ngoc sehat. Kecuali, ada sedikit masalah pada fungsi hatinya, namun tidak serius.

"Saya tidak tahu apakah insomnia yang saya alami mempengaruhi kesehatan saya atau tidak. Tapi saya merasa tetap sehat dan bisa bertani seperti yang lainnya," ucap Ngoc. Pria itu bahkan mengaku setiap harinya masih mampu membawa 50 kg karung pupuk sembari berjalan turun gunung sejauh 4 km.

2. Michel Lotito, pria pemakan segala

Michel Lotito yang lahir pada 15 Juni 1950 adalah seorang entertainer. Di Prancis, dia dikenal sebagai Monsieur Mangetout (Mister Eat-it-all) alias 'Pria Pemakan Segala'. Dalam atraksinya, Lotito gemar memakan benda-benda yang secara normal tak bisa dicerna tubuh manusia, seperti logam, kaca, karet. Bahkan juga benda-benda lain seperti sepeda, televisi, hingga pesawat Cessna 150. Benda-benda tersebut terlebih dahulu dibongkar dan dipotong-potong menjadi bagian yang lebih kecil, baru kemudian dimakannya. Lotito diketahui pernah memakan badan pesawat selama 2 tahun, dari 1978-1980

. Kebiasaan makan benda-benda tak lazim ini dilakukan Lotito sejak kecil dan mulai dipamerkan ke publik pada tahun 1966 silam. Meskipun kerap memakan benda-benda aneh, kondisi tubuh dan kesehatan Lotito seolah tak terpengaruh. Dia sama sekali tidak mengalami sakit apapun meskipun telah memakan benda-benda yang mengandung racun.

Ketika memakan berkilo-kilo logam atau benda aneh lainnya, Lotito dibantu dengan minyak mineral atau air dalam jumlah banyak untuk membantu pencernaannya. Menurut pemeriksaan medis, Lotito dinyatakan memiliki perut dan usus dengan ketebalan dua kali lipat dari ukuran normal. Selain itu, asam pencernaan yang ada di dalam lambungnya diperkirakan memiliki kekuatan luar biasa sehingga mampu mencerna benda-benda logam yang dia makan. Luar biasa!

3. Matayoshi Mitsuo, mengaku sebagai Yesus Kristus Politikus eksentrik Jepang ini mengaku dirinya adalah Yesus Kristus. Menurut visi Matayoshi, pria ini mengklaim akan melakukan penghakiman terakhir sebagai Kristus namun dengan cara yang benar-benar sesuai dengan sistem politik saat ini.

Matayoshi menuturkan, langkah pertama yang harus dijalaninya sebagai Juruselamat adalah dengan terpilih menjadi Perdana Menteri Jepang. Kemudian dia akan mereformasi masyarakat Jepang. Tidak hanya itu, Matayoshi juga meminta PBB untuk memberikannya posisi terhormat sebagai Sekretaris Jenderal PBB. Dengan demikian, Matayoshi akan bisa memerintah seluruh dunia dengan dua jabatan legal tersebut, tidak hanya secara agama tapi juga secara politik.

Matayoshi telah berulang kali ikut serta dalam pemilihan umum di Jepang, namun tidak pernah berhasil menang. Dia dikenal karena kampanyenya yang eksentrik -dia pernah menyerukan para rival politiknya untuk bunuh diri dengan melakukan harakiri.

4. Shoichi Yokoi, 28 tahun sembunyi di gua usai PD II

Yokoi tadinya seorang tentara yang tergabung dalam wajib militer di Tentara Kerajaan Jepang pada tahun 1941 silam dan tak lama kemudian dikirim ke Guam. Pada tahun 1944, ketika pasukan Amerika Serikat menduduki Guam, Yokoi memilih bersembunyi.

Hingga akhirnya pada 24 Januari 1972, Yokoi ditemukan di sebuah daerah terpencil di Guam oleh dua warga pulau tersebut. Selama 28 tahun, pria itu hidup bersembunyi di dalam gua bawah tanah di tengah hutan. Yokoi terlalu takut untuk keluar, bahkan setelah dia menemukan selebaran yang isinya menyebutkan bahwa Perang Dunia II telah berakhir.

Yokoi akhirnya dipulangkan ke Jepang sembari membawa senapannya yang telah berkarat.

5. Sanju Bhagat, 'mengandung' saudara kembarnya di dalam perut

Pria asal India ini memiliki kondisi perut yang tidak wajar, yakni membengkak seperti sedang hamil 9 bulan. Bhagat yang tinggal di Nagpur, India ini sering merasa sesak nafas karena kondisinya itu.

Sampai akhirnya pada suatu malam di bulan Juni 1999, Bhagat menjalani operasi di rumah sakit. Isi perut Bhagat yang awalnya diduga tumor ganas, ternyata merupakan sesuatu yang tak diduga sama sekali. Saat dioperasi, dokter menemukan sejumlah bagian tubuh manusia di bagian dalam perut Bhagat. Bagian-bagian tubuh tersebut ternyata milik saudara kembar Bhagat yang terjebak di dalam perutnya sejak lahir.

Dokter menyatakan, Bhagat mengalami kondisi medis teraneh di dunia, yakni janin di dalam janin lainnya. Sangat jarang terjadi bahwa sebuah janin bisa terjebak di dalam janin kembarannya sendiri. Menariknya, janin yang terjebak ini mampu bertahan hidup sebagai parasit dan menyerap darah dan makanan dari tubuh Bhagat, hingga dia bertambah besar dan mulai menyakiti tubuh Bhagat.

6. Mehran Karimi Nasseri, hidup di bandara sejak 1988

Pria yang juga dikenal sebagai Sir, Alfred Mehran ini merupakan seorang pengungsi asal Iran yang tinggal di Bandara Charles de Gaulle, Prancis sejak Agustus 8 Agustus 1988. Mehran tinggal di ruang tunggu keberangkatan di Terminal Satu bandara internasional di Paris itu selama bertahun-tahun karena tak memiliki dokumen.

Kisah Mehran ini dimulai ketika dia dipenjara dan dianiaya di Iran, kemudian dibuang keluar negeri. Mehran lalu berusaha mendapatkan suaka ke sejumlah negara di Eropa, tapi usahanya tidak membuahkan hasil.

Saat mencoba pergi ke Inggris, Mehran mengklaim bahwa dirinya dirampok dan tasnya dicuri orang saat akan berangkat menuju Bandara Charles de Gaulle untuk terbang ke Inggris. Dia pun berhasil naik ke pesawat dan terbang ke Inggris. Tapi setibanya di Bandara Heathrow di London, Inggris, Mehran yang tidak membawa dokumen-dokumen yang diperlukan, diterbangkan kembali ke Bandara Charles de Gaulle.

Kepada otoritas Prancis, Mehran tak bisa menunjukkan identitas maupun dokumen-dokumen yang membuktikan dirinya sebagai seorang pengungsi. Dia pun dipindahkan ke zona tunggu, sebuah tempat 'penahanan' bagi pelancong tanpa dokumen.

Kisah Mehran ini konon menjadi inspirasi bagi film 'The Terminal' keluaran tahun 2004, yang dibintangi oleh aktor Hollywood, Tom Hanks. Namun tidak seperti karakter yang diperankan Hanks dalam film tersebut yang tinggal di area transit bandara, Mehran justru tinggal di area keberangkatan, juga di dekat butik-butik dan restoran yang berada di lantai dasar.

Selama tinggal di bandara, Mehran terlihat jarang berkomunikasi dengan orang lain. Dengan membawa-bawa kereta dorong dan tasnya, Mehran tampak seperti pelancong biasa, tanpa ada yang menyadari bahwa dia sebenarnya adalah gelandangan.

Pria Aneh Di Dunia

1. Pasanglah AC dengan menggunakan temperatur yang dikehendaki. Biasanya suhu disetel dimulai dari 18 sampai 32 derajat C. Kian rendah temperatur yang anda gunakan, maka kian dingin perputaran udara pada sparepart AC yang anda rasakan. Namun semakin rendah penyetelan mode dingin sparepart AC maka penggunaan daya listrik pun juga akan semakin besar. Untuk itu bijaklah dalam pemakaiannya.

2. Ketika akan menyalakan sparepart AC, tutuplah setiap ventilasi pintu juga jendela supaya udara dari luar tak masuk. Dengan begitu anda bisa merasakan kesejukan udara yang dihembuskan AC dengan maksimal. Apabila telah mati, untuk itu buka lagi ventilasi maupun pintu kamar lebar-lebar. Itu penting guna untuk penggantian udara pada ruangan supaya cenderung sehat serta Oke.

3. Tidak boleh ketinggalan agar senantiasa untuk membersihan pada peranti pendingin udara itu dengan rutin serta berkala. Apabila AC dipakai di ruangan serta area yang berlebih debu, dengan begitu pembersihan boleh dikerjakan dua kali sepekan. Apabila peranti pendingin udara itu dipakai di area maupun ruang yang sedikit berdebu, untuk itu pembersihan bisa dikerjakan 1 – 2 bulan sekali. Prioritaskan pembersihan di komponen penyaringan udara, sebab itu adalah alat penting supaya sparepart AC bisa hidup lebih dingin serta maksimal. Tidak boleh lupa cek freon, apakah tetap terisi penuh, kosong maupun bocor. Kerjakan pengecekannya kurang lebih enam bulan sekali. Jika anda tak mampu untuk membersihkannya seorang diri, hubungi saja bagian bantuan servis resmi sesuai brand AC yang anda miliki.

4. Gunakan Kapasitas serta desain peranti pas keperluan anda juga besar-kecilnya kamar. Pada kamar tidur, bisa memakai Kapasitas AC dimulai dari ½ sampai 1 PK. Pada ruang tamu boleh pakai 1,5 sampai 3 PK. So tidak boleh kekecilan ataupun terlalu besar. Pada ruang rapat yang luas, anda bisa menggunakan AC yang mempunyai model floor standing. Sementara pada ruang kantor yang luas, desain AC ceiling cassette pun lebih bagus.

5. Ketika akan membeli sparepart AC, ada bagusnya anda banyak mengadakan penelitian lebih dulu. Temukan fakta sedtil-detilnya mengenai AC yang Sekarang ini lagi beredar, dapat lewat katalog, surat kabar, majalah maupun hadir ketika ada pameran elektronik. Seleksi AC yang irit penggunaan listriknya, merek jelas, harganya tergapai serta bantuan servis yang layak. Makin AC yang anda gunakan irit listrik, itu artinya anda pun ikut mendukung irit penggunaan listrik serta mencintai lingkungan.

6. Gunakan sparepart AC yang sanggup menyaring udara dengan maksimal. Tidak cuma menghadirkan udara dingin semata, akan tetapi AC itu pun bisa menyaring udara yang tercemar oleh virus penyakit, patogen, maupun bakteri yang mengganggu bagi kesehatan badan anda. Ingatlah selalu bahwa dibalik kesejukan udara AC terdapat efek samping yang bisa membahayakan kesehatan anda bila digunakan dengan terus menerus.

ATURAN PENGGUNAAN SPAREPART AC

Saco-Indonesia.com - Manfaat kesehatan dari pepaya matang pasti sudah banyak yang mengetahuinya. Namun tak hanya pepaya yang sudah matang dan berwarna orange saja yang memiliki manfaat kesehatan. Bahkan pepaya yang masih belum matang pun memiliki efek baik untuk kesehatan tubuh.

Pepaya muda atau yang belum benar-benar matang biasanya berwarna hijau dan belum memiliki biji. Bagian dalamnya biasanya berwarna lebih putih. Pepaya muda memang tak sepopuler pepaya yang sudah matang, ini karena pepaya matang lebih enak dan lebih mudah dikonsumsi.

Pepaya muda mengandung banyak vitamin dan mineral seperti potasium, magnesium, vitamin A, C, B, dan E. Selain itu, pepaya muda juga mengandung enzim papain dan chymopapain yang baik untuk perut. Berikut adalah beberapa manfaat kesehatan dari pepaya muda, seperti dilansir oleh Boldsky (08/03).

1. Menjaga pencernaan
Enzim papain dan chymopapain yang ada pada pepaya muda membantu menjaga kesehatan pencernaan dan terbentuknya gas dalam perut. Dengan begitu, pepaya muda tak akan menyebabkan kembung dan membuat sistem pencernaan bekerja lebih lancar.

2. Meningkatkan sistem kekebalan tubuh
Baik pepaya muda ataupun biji pepaya diketahui baik untuk meningkatkan sistem kekebalan tubuh. Pepaya kaya akan vitamin A, C, dan E. Pepaya muda juga diketahui bisa mencegah infeksi, pilek, dan batuk.

3. Menyembuhkan konstipasi
Papain yang ada dalam pepaya muda membantu mengatasi konstipasi secara alami. Bahkan pepaya yang sudah matang pun tak memiliki papain sebanyak pepaya muda.

4. Membersihkan usus
Mengonsumsi jus pepaya muda adalah salah satu cara terbaik dan termudah untuk membersihkan usus. Semua nutrisi dan mineral di dalamnya juga bisa menyehatkan pencernaan, tak hanya membersihkannya dari zat beracun dan kotoran yang tak diinginkan.

5. Meningkatkan produksi ASI
Bagi ibu yang sedang menyusui, pepaya muda sangat baik untuk meningkatkan produksi ASI. Dengan begitu ibu tak perlu khawatir ASI yang diproduksi tak cukup untuk si buah hati.

6. Melindungi dari infeksi saluran kemih
Pepaya muda juga melindungi sistem pengeluaran tubuh dan melindunginya dari infeksi saluran kemih. Konsumsi jus pepaya muda untuk mencegah berkumpulnya bakteri pada saluran kemih.

Itulah beberapa manfaat pepaya muda untuk kesehatan. Pepaya muda memang tak seenak pepaya yang sudah matang. Namun jangan ragu untuk mengonsumsinya karena pepaya muda juga memiliki banyak manfaat untuk kesehatan.

Editor : Maulana Lee

Sumber : merdeka.com

Enam Manfaat sehat mengonsumsi pepaya muda



saco-indoneia.com, Selesai sudah perjuangan real madrid di ajang Liga Champions tahun ini. Menang dengan hasil 2-0 pada leg kedua lawan borrusia dortmund tak cukup untuk melanjutkan perjuangan melaju ke babak final. Pasalnya, madrid menelan kekalahan 4-1 pada leg pertama di kandang dortmund.

Perjuangan Real Madrid pada pertandingan melawan borussia dortmund patut di acungi jempol, menyerang sejak awal dan mendominasi penguasaan bola 63%-37% sangat menekan pertahanan dortmund. Namun di 45 menit pertama belum menghasilkan gol, 2 peluang yang datang dari C.Ronaldo dan Mezut Ozil belum mendapat hasil yang memuaskan, pun Dortmund juga beberapa kali mampu melakukan serangan balik yang juga belum mendapatkan hasil Gol.

Awal mainnya Karim Benzema dan Richardo Kaka' pada pertengahan babak kedua belum berpengaruh banyak, namun Benzema mampu mencetak Gol melalui assist dari Ozil pada menit ke 83, disusul dengan Gol kedua dari kaki Sergio Ramos pada menit 88 melalui assit benzema. Terbatasnya waktu tak mampu membuat gol lagi pada pertandingan Semi Final itu. Dengan usaha keras yang telah dipersembahkan Real Madrid, sebenarnya mampu melanjutkan perjuangannya ke Babak Final, namun usaha saja tak cukup untuk melaju ke babak selanjutnya, madrid butuh SEDIKIT KEBERUNTUNGAN!. Namun keberuntungan berpihak pada Dortmund.

Dengan Aggregat 4-3, Dortmund berhak melaju ke Babak Final Liga Champions yang lawannya belum pasti, antara Bayer Munchen atau Barcelona.

Madrid Butuh Keberuntungan.

Public perceptions of race relations in America have grown substantially more negative in the aftermath of the death of a young black man who was injured while in police custody in Baltimore and the subsequent unrest, far eclipsing the sentiment recorded in the wake of turmoil in Ferguson, Mo., last summer.

Americans are also increasingly likely to say that the police are more apt to use deadly force against a black person, the latest New York Times/CBS News poll finds.

The poll findings highlight the challenges for local leaders and police officials in trying to maintain order while sustaining faith in the criminal justice system in a racially polarized nation.

Sixty-one percent of Americans now say race relations in this country are generally bad. That figure is up sharply from 44 percent after the fatal police shooting of Michael Brown and the unrest that followed in Ferguson in August, and 43 percent in December. In a CBS News poll just two months ago, 38 percent said race relations were generally bad. Current views are by far the worst of Barack Obama’s presidency.

The negative sentiment is echoed by broad majorities of blacks and whites alike, a stark change from earlier this year, when 58 percent of blacks thought race relations were bad, but just 35 percent of whites agreed. In August, 48 percent of blacks and 41 percent of whites said they felt that way.

Looking ahead, 44 percent of Americans think race relations are worsening, up from 36 percent in December. Forty-one percent of blacks and 46 percent of whites think so. Pessimism among whites has increased 10 points since December.

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The poll finds that profound racial divisions in views of how the police use deadly force remain. Blacks are more than twice as likely to say police in most communities are more apt to use deadly force against a black person — 79 percent of blacks say so compared with 37 percent of whites. A slim majority of whites say race is not a factor in a police officer’s decision to use deadly force.

Overall, 44 percent of Americans say deadly force is more likely to be used against a black person, up from 37 percent in August and 40 percent in December.

Blacks also remain far more likely than whites to say they feel mostly anxious about the police in their community. Forty-two percent say so, while 51 percent feel mostly safe. Among whites, 8 in 10 feel mostly safe.

One proposal to address the matter — having on-duty police officers wear body cameras — receives overwhelming support. More than 9 in 10 whites and blacks alike favor it.

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Asked specifically about the situation in Baltimore, most Americans expressed at least some confidence that the investigation by local authorities would be conducted fairly. But while nearly two-thirds of whites think so, fewer than half of blacks agree. Still, more blacks are confident now than were in August regarding the investigation in Ferguson. On Friday, six members of the police force involved in the arrest of Mr. Gray were charged with serious offenses, including manslaughter. The poll was conducted Thursday through Sunday; results from before charges were announced are similar to those from after.

Reaction to the recent turmoil in Baltimore, however, is similar among blacks and whites. Most Americans, 61 percent, say the unrest after Mr. Gray’s death was not justified. That includes 64 percent of whites and 57 percent of blacks.

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Negative View of U.S. Race Relations Grows, Poll Finds

With 12 tournament victories in his career, Mr. Peete was the most successful black professional golfer before Tiger Woods.

Calvin Peete, 71, a Racial Pioneer on the PGA Tour, Is Dead

Even as a high school student, Dave Goldberg was urging female classmates to speak up. As a young dot-com executive, he had one girlfriend after another, but fell hard for a driven friend named Sheryl Sandberg, pining after her for years. After they wed, Mr. Goldberg pushed her to negotiate hard for high compensation and arranged his schedule so that he could be home with their children when she was traveling for work.

Mr. Goldberg, who died unexpectedly on Friday, was a genial, 47-year-old Silicon Valley entrepreneur who built his latest company, SurveyMonkey, from a modest enterprise to one recently valued by investors at $2 billion. But he was also perhaps the signature male feminist of his era: the first major chief executive in memory to spur his wife to become as successful in business as he was, and an essential figure in “Lean In,” Ms. Sandberg’s blockbuster guide to female achievement.

Over the weekend, even strangers were shocked at his death, both because of his relatively young age and because they knew of him as the living, breathing, car-pooling center of a new philosophy of two-career marriage.

“They were very much the role models for what this next generation wants to grapple with,” said Debora L. Spar, the president of Barnard College. In a 2011 commencement speech there, Ms. Sandberg told the graduates that whom they married would be their most important career decision.

In the play “The Heidi Chronicles,” revived on Broadway this spring, a male character who is the founder of a media company says that “I don’t want to come home to an A-plus,” explaining that his ambitions require him to marry an unthreatening helpmeet. Mr. Goldberg grew up to hold the opposite view, starting with his upbringing in progressive Minneapolis circles where “there was woman power in every aspect of our lives,” Jeffrey Dachis, a childhood friend, said in an interview.

The Goldberg parents read “The Feminine Mystique” together — in fact, Mr. Goldberg’s father introduced it to his wife, according to Ms. Sandberg’s book. In 1976, Paula Goldberg helped found a nonprofit to aid children with disabilities. Her husband, Mel, a law professor who taught at night, made the family breakfast at home.

Later, when Dave Goldberg was in high school and his prom date, Jill Chessen, stayed silent in a politics class, he chastised her afterward. He said, “You need to speak up,” Ms. Chessen recalled in an interview. “They need to hear your voice.”

Years later, when Karin Gilford, an early employee at Launch Media, Mr. Goldberg’s digital music company, became a mother, he knew exactly what to do. He kept giving her challenging assignments, she recalled, but also let her work from home one day a week. After Yahoo acquired Launch, Mr. Goldberg became known for distributing roses to all the women in the office on Valentine’s Day.

Ms. Sandberg, who often describes herself as bossy-in-a-good-way, enchanted him when they became friendly in the mid-1990s. He “was smitten with her,” Ms. Chessen remembered. Ms. Sandberg was dating someone else, but Mr. Goldberg still hung around, even helping her and her then-boyfriend move, recalled Bob Roback, a friend and co-founder of Launch. When they finally married in 2004, friends remember thinking how similar the two were, and that the qualities that might have made Ms. Sandberg intimidating to some men drew Mr. Goldberg to her even more.

Over the next decade, Mr. Goldberg and Ms. Sandberg pioneered new ways of capturing information online, had a son and then a daughter, became immensely wealthy, and hashed out their who-does-what-in-this-marriage issues. Mr. Goldberg’s commute from the Bay Area to Los Angeles became a strain, so he relocated, later joking that he “lost the coin flip” of where they would live. He paid the bills, she planned the birthday parties, and both often left their offices at 5:30 so they could eat dinner with their children before resuming work afterward.

Friends in Silicon Valley say they were careful to conduct their careers separately, politely refusing when outsiders would ask one about the other’s work: Ms. Sandberg’s role building Facebook into an information and advertising powerhouse, and Mr. Goldberg at SurveyMonkey, which made polling faster and cheaper. But privately, their work was intertwined. He often began statements to his team with the phrase “Well, Sheryl said” sharing her business advice. He counseled her, too, starting with her salary negotiations with Mark Zuckerberg.

“I wanted Mark to really feel he stretched to get Sheryl, because she was worth it,” Mr. Goldberg explained in a 2013 “60 Minutes” interview, his Minnesota accent and his smile intact as he offered a rare peek of the intersection of marriage and money at the top of corporate life.

 

 

While his wife grew increasingly outspoken about women’s advancement, Mr. Goldberg quietly advised the men in the office on family and partnership matters, an associate said. Six out of 16 members of SurveyMonkey’s management team are female, an almost unheard-of ratio among Silicon Valley “unicorns,” or companies valued at over $1 billion.

When Mellody Hobson, a friend and finance executive, wrote a chapter of “Lean In” about women of color for the college edition of the book, Mr. Goldberg gave her feedback on the draft, a clue to his deep involvement. He joked with Ms. Hobson that she was too long-winded, like Ms. Sandberg, but aside from that, he said he loved the chapter, she said in an interview.

By then, Mr. Goldberg was a figure of fascination who inspired a “where can I get one of those?” reaction among many of the women who had read the best seller “Lean In.” Some lamented that Ms. Sandberg’s advice hinged too much on marrying a Dave Goldberg, who was humble enough to plan around his wife, attentive enough to worry about which shoes his young daughter would wear, and rich enough to help pay for the help that made the family’s balancing act manageable.

Now that he is gone, and Ms. Sandberg goes from being half of a celebrated partnership to perhaps the business world’s most prominent single mother, the pages of “Lean In” carry a new sting of loss.

“We are never at 50-50 at any given moment — perfect equality is hard to define or sustain — but we allow the pendulum to swing back and forth between us,” she wrote in 2013, adding that they were looking forward to raising teenagers together.

“Fortunately, I have Dave to figure it out with me,” she wrote.

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Late in April, after Native American actors walked off in disgust from the set of Adam Sandler’s latest film, a western sendup that its distributor, Netflix, has defended as being equally offensive to all, a glow of pride spread through several Native American communities.

Tantoo Cardinal, a Canadian indigenous actress who played Black Shawl in “Dances With Wolves,” recalled thinking to herself, “It’s come.” Larry Sellers, who starred as Cloud Dancing in the 1990s television show “Dr. Quinn, Medicine Woman,” thought, “It’s about time.” Jesse Wente, who is Ojibwe and directs film programming at the TIFF Bell Lightbox in Toronto, found himself encouraged and surprised. There are so few film roles for indigenous actors, he said, that walking off the set of a major production showed real mettle.

But what didn’t surprise Mr. Wente was the content of the script. According to the actors who walked off the set, the film, titled “The Ridiculous Six,” included a Native American woman who passes out and is revived after white men douse her with alcohol, and another woman squatting to urinate while lighting a peace pipe. “There’s enough history at this point to have set some expectations around these sort of Hollywood depictions,” Mr. Wente said.

The walkout prompted a rhetorical “What do you expect from an Adam Sandler film?,” and a Netflix spokesman said that in the movie, blacks, Mexicans and whites were lampooned as well. But Native American actors and critics said a broader issue was at stake. While mainstream portrayals of native peoples have, Mr. Wente said, become “incrementally better” over the decades, he and others say, they remain far from accurate and reflect a lack of opportunities for Native American performers. What’s more, as Native Americans hunger for representation on screen, critics say the absence of three-dimensional portrayals has very real off-screen consequences.

“Our people are still healing from historical trauma,” said Loren Anthony, one of the actors who walked out. “Our youth are still trying to figure out who they are, where they fit in this society. Kids are killing themselves. They’re not proud of who they are.” They also don’t, he added, see themselves on prime time television or the big screen. Netflix noted while about five people walked off the “The Ridiculous Six” set, 100 or so Native American actors and extras stayed.

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But in interviews, nearly a dozen Native American actors and film industry experts said that Mr. Sandler’s humor perpetuated decades-old negative stereotypes. Mr. Anthony said such depictions helped feed the despondency many Native Americans feel, with deadly results: Native Americans have the highest suicide rate out of all the country’s ethnicities.

The on-screen problem is twofold, Mr. Anthony and others said: There’s a paucity of roles for Native Americans — according to the Screen Actors Guild in 2008 they accounted for 0.3 percent of all on-screen parts (those figures have yet to be updated), compared to about 2 percent of the general population — and Native American actors are often perceived in a narrow way.

In his Peabody Award-winning documentary “Reel Injun,” the Cree filmmaker Neil Diamond explored Hollywood depictions of Native Americans over the years, and found they fell into a few stereotypical categories: the Noble Savage, the Drunk Indian, the Mystic, the Indian Princess, the backward tribal people futilely fighting John Wayne and manifest destiny. While the 1990 film “Dances With Wolves” won praise for depicting Native Americans as fully fleshed out human beings, not all indigenous people embraced it. It was still told, critics said, from the colonialists’ point of view. In an interview, John Trudell, a Santee Sioux writer, actor (“Thunderheart”) and the former chairman of the American Indian Movement, described the film as “a story of two white people.”

“God bless ‘Dances with Wolves,’ ” Michael Horse, who played Deputy Hawk in “Twin Peaks,” said sarcastically. “Even ‘Avatar.’ Someone’s got to come save the tribal people.”

Dan Spilo, a partner at Industry Entertainment who represents Adam Beach, one of today’s most prominent Native American actors, said while typecasting dogs many minorities, it is especially intractable when it comes to Native Americans. Casting directors, he said, rarely cast them as police officers, doctors or lawyers. “There’s the belief that the Native American character should be on reservations or riding a horse,” he said.

“We don’t see ourselves,” Mr. Horse said. “We’re still an antiquated culture to them, and to the rest of the world.”

Ms. Cardinal said she was once turned down for the role of the wife of a child-abusing cop because the filmmakers felt that casting her would somehow be “too political.”

Another sore point is the long run of white actors playing American Indians, among them Burt Lancaster, Rock Hudson, Audrey Hepburn and, more recently, Johnny Depp, whose depiction of Tonto in the 2013 film “Lone Ranger,” was viewed as racist by detractors. There are, of course, exceptions. The former A&E series “Longmire,” which, as it happens, will now be on Netflix, was roundly praised for its depiction of life on a Northern Cheyenne reservation, with Lou Diamond Phillips, who is of Cherokee descent, playing a Northern Cheyenne man.

Others also point to the success of Mr. Beach, who played a Mohawk detective in “Law & Order: Special Victims Unit” and landed a starring role in the forthcoming D C Comics picture “Suicide Squad.” Mr. Beach said he had come across insulting scripts backed by people who don’t see anything wrong with them.

“I’d rather starve than do something that is offensive to my ancestral roots,” Mr. Beach said. “But I think there will always be attempts to drawn on the weakness of native people’s struggles. The savage Indian will always be the savage Indian. The white man will always be smarter and more cunning. The cavalry will always win.”

The solution, Mr. Wente, Mr. Trudell and others said, lies in getting more stories written by and starring Native Americans. But Mr. Wente noted that while independent indigenous film has blossomed in the last two decades, mainstream depictions have yet to catch up. “You have to stop expecting for Hollywood to correct it, because there seems to be no ability or desire to correct it,” Mr. Wente said.

There have been calls to boycott Netflix but, writing for Indian Country Today Media Network, which first broke news of the walk off, the filmmaker Brian Young noted that the distributor also offered a number of films by or about Native Americans.

The furor around “The Ridiculous Six” may drive more people to see it. Then one of the questions that Mr. Trudell, echoing others, had about the film will be answered: “Who the hell laughs at this stuff?”

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GREENWICH, Conn. — Mago is in the bedroom. You can go in.

The big man lies on a hospital bed with his bare feet scraping its bottom rail. His head is propped on a scarlet pillow, the left temple dented, the right side paralyzed. His dark hair is kept just long enough to conceal the scars.

The occasional sounds he makes are understood only by his wife, but he still has that punctuating left hand. In slow motion, the fingers curl and close. A thumbs-up greeting.

Hello, Mago.

This is Magomed Abdusalamov, 34, also known as the Russian Tyson, also known as Mago. He is a former heavyweight boxer who scored four knockouts and 14 technical knockouts in his first 18 professional fights. He preferred to stand between rounds. Sitting conveyed weakness.

But Mago lost his 19th fight, his big chance, at the packed Theater at Madison Square Garden in November 2013. His 19th decision, and his last.

Now here he is, in a small bedroom in a working-class neighborhood in Greenwich, in a modest house his family rents cheap from a devoted friend. The air-pressure machine for his mattress hums like an expectant crowd.

 

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Mike Perez, left, and Magomed Abdusalamov during the fight in which Abdusalamov was injured. Credit Joe Camporeale/USA Today Sports, via Reuters

 

Today is like any other day, except for those days when he is hurried in crisis to the hospital. Every three hours during the night, his slight wife, Bakanay, 28, has risen to turn his 6-foot-3 body — 210 pounds of dead weight. It has to be done. Infections of the gaping bedsore above his tailbone have nearly killed him.

Then, with the help of a young caretaker, Baka has gotten two of their daughters off to elementary school and settled down the toddler. Yes, Mago and Baka are blessed with all girls, but they had also hoped for a son someday.

They feed Mago as they clean him; it’s easier that way. For breakfast, which comes with a side of crushed antiseizure pills, he likes oatmeal with a squirt of Hershey’s chocolate syrup. But even oatmeal must be puréed and fed to him by spoon.

He opens his mouth to indicate more, the way a baby does. But his paralysis has made everything a choking hazard. His water needs a stirring of powdered food thickener, and still he chokes — eh-eh-eh — as he tries to cough up what will not go down.

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Mago used to drink only water. No alcohol. Not even soda. A sip of juice would be as far as he dared. Now even water betrays him.

With the caretaker’s help, Baka uses a washcloth and soap to clean his body and shampoo his hair. How handsome still, she has thought. Sometimes, in the night, she leaves the bedroom to watch old videos, just to hear again his voice in the fullness of life. She cries, wipes her eyes and returns, feigning happiness. Mago must never see her sad.

 

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 Abdusalamov's hand being massaged. Credit Ángel Franco/The New York Times

 

When Baka finishes, Mago is cleanshaven and fresh down to his trimmed and filed toenails. “I want him to look good,” she says.

Theirs was an arranged Muslim marriage in Makhachkala, in the Russian republic of Dagestan. He was 23, she was 18 and their future hinged on boxing. Sometimes they would shadowbox in love, her David to his Goliath. You are so strong, he would tell her.

His father once told him he could either be a bandit or an athlete, but if he chose banditry, “I will kill you.” This paternal advice, Mago later told The Ventura County Reporter, “made it a very easy decision for me.”

Mago won against mediocre competition, in Moscow and Hollywood, Fla., in Las Vegas and Johnstown, Pa. He was knocked down only once, and even then, it surprised more than hurt. He scored a technical knockout in the next round.

It all led up to this: the undercard at the Garden, Mike Perez vs. Magomed Abdusalamov, 10 rounds, on HBO. A win, he believed, would improve his chances of taking on the heavyweight champion Wladimir Klitschko, who sat in the crowd of 4,600 with his fiancée, the actress Hayden Panettiere, watching.

Wearing black-and-red trunks and a green mouth guard, Mago went to work. But in the first round, a hard forearm to his left cheek rocked him. At the bell, he returned to his corner, and this time, he sat down. “I think it’s broken,” he repeatedly said in Russian.

 

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Bakanay Abdusalamova, Abdusalamov's wife, and her injured husband and a masseur in the background. Credit Ángel Franco/The New York Times

 

Maybe at that point, somebody — the referee, the ringside doctors, his handlers — should have stopped the fight, under a guiding principle: better one punch too early than one punch too late. But the bloody trade of blows continued into the seventh, eighth, ninth, a hand and orbital bone broken, his face transforming.

Meanwhile, in the family’s apartment in Miami, Baka forced herself to watch the broadcast. She could see it in his swollen eyes. Something was off.

After the final round, Perez raised his tattooed arms in victory, and Mago wandered off in a fog. He had taken 312 punches in about 40 minutes, for a purse of $40,000.

 

 

In the locker room, doctors sutured a cut above Mago’s left eye and tested his cognitive abilities. He did not do well. The ambulance that waits in expectation at every fight was not summoned by boxing officials.

Blood was pooling in Mago’s cranial cavity as he left the Garden. He vomited on the pavement while his handlers flagged a taxi to St. Luke’s-Roosevelt Hospital. There, doctors induced a coma and removed part of his skull to drain fluids and ease the swelling.

Then came the stroke.

 

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A championship belt belonging to Abdusalamov and a card from one of his daughters. Credit Ángel Franco/The New York Times

 

It is lunchtime now, and the aroma of puréed beef and potatoes lingers. So do the questions.

How will Mago and Baka pay the $2 million in medical bills they owe? What if their friend can no longer offer them this home? Will they win their lawsuits against the five ringside doctors, the referee, and a New York State boxing inspector? What about Mago’s future care?

Most of all: Is this it?

A napkin rests on Mago’s chest. As another spoonful of mush approaches, he opens his mouth, half-swallows, chokes, and coughs until it clears. Eh-eh-eh. Sometimes he turns bluish, but Baka never shows fear. Always happy for Mago.

Some days he is wheeled out for physical therapy or speech therapy. Today, two massage therapists come to knead his half-limp body like a pair of skilled corner men.

Soon, Mago will doze. Then his three daughters, ages 2, 6 and 9, will descend upon him to talk of their day. Not long ago, the oldest lugged his championship belt to school for a proud show-and-tell moment. Her classmates were amazed at the weight of it.

Then, tonight, there will be more puréed food and pulverized medication, more coughing, and more tender care from his wife, before sleep comes.

Goodbye, Mago.

He half-smiles, raises his one good hand, and forms a fist.

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As he reflected on the festering wounds deepened by race and grievance that have been on painful display in America’s cities lately, President Obama on Monday found himself thinking about a young man he had just met named Malachi.

A few minutes before, in a closed-door round-table discussion at Lehman College in the Bronx, Mr. Obama had asked a group of black and Hispanic students from disadvantaged backgrounds what could be done to help them reach their goals. Several talked about counseling and guidance programs.

“Malachi, he just talked about — we should talk about love,” Mr. Obama told a crowd afterward, drifting away from his prepared remarks. “Because Malachi and I shared the fact that our dad wasn’t around and that sometimes we wondered why he wasn’t around and what had happened. But really, that’s what this comes down to is: Do we love these kids?”

Many presidents have governed during times of racial tension, but Mr. Obama is the first to see in the mirror a face that looks like those on the other side of history’s ledger. While his first term was consumed with the economy, war and health care, his second keeps coming back to the societal divide that was not bridged by his election. A president who eschewed focusing on race now seems to have found his voice again as he thinks about how to use his remaining time in office and beyond.

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In the aftermath of racially charged unrest in places like Baltimore, Ferguson, Mo., and New York, Mr. Obama came to the Bronx on Monday for the announcement of a new nonprofit organization that is being spun off from his White House initiative called My Brother’s Keeper. Staked by more than $80 million in commitments from corporations and other donors, the new group, My Brother’s Keeper Alliance, will in effect provide the nucleus for Mr. Obama’s post-presidency, which will begin in January 2017.

“This will remain a mission for me and for Michelle not just for the rest of my presidency but for the rest of my life,” Mr. Obama said. “And the reason is simple,” he added. Referring to some of the youths he had just met, he said: “We see ourselves in these young men. I grew up without a dad. I grew up lost sometimes and adrift, not having a sense of a clear path. The only difference between me and a lot of other young men in this neighborhood and all across the country is that I grew up in an environment that was a little more forgiving.”

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Organizers said the new alliance already had financial pledges from companies like American Express, Deloitte, Discovery Communications and News Corporation. The money will be used to help companies address obstacles facing young black and Hispanic men, provide grants to programs for disadvantaged youths, and help communities aid their populations.

Joe Echevarria, a former chief executive of Deloitte, the accounting and consulting firm, will lead the alliance, and among those on its leadership team or advisory group are executives at PepsiCo, News Corporation, Sprint, BET and Prudential Group Insurance; former Secretary of State Colin L. Powell; Senator Cory Booker, Democrat of New Jersey; former Attorney General Eric H. Holder Jr.; the music star John Legend; the retired athletes Alonzo Mourning, Jerome Bettis and Shaquille O’Neal; and the mayors of Indianapolis, Sacramento and Philadelphia.

The alliance, while nominally independent of the White House, may face some of the same questions confronting former Secretary of State Hillary Rodham Clinton as she begins another presidential campaign. Some of those donating to the alliance may have interests in government action, and skeptics may wonder whether they are trying to curry favor with the president by contributing.

“The Obama administration will have no role in deciding how donations are screened and what criteria they’ll set at the alliance for donor policies, because it’s an entirely separate entity,” Josh Earnest, the White House press secretary, told reporters on Air Force One en route to New York. But he added, “I’m confident that the members of the board are well aware of the president’s commitment to transparency.”

The alliance was in the works before the disturbances last week after the death of Freddie Gray, the black man who suffered fatal injuries while in police custody in Baltimore, but it reflected the evolution of Mr. Obama’s presidency. For him, in a way, it is coming back to issues that animated him as a young community organizer and politician. It was his own struggle with race and identity, captured in his youthful memoir, “Dreams From My Father,” that stood him apart from other presidential aspirants.

But that was a side of him that he kept largely to himself through the first years of his presidency while he focused on other priorities like turning the economy around, expanding government-subsidized health care and avoiding electoral land mines en route to re-election.

After securing a second term, Mr. Obama appeared more emboldened. Just a month after his 2013 inauguration, he talked passionately about opportunity and race with a group of teenage boys in Chicago, a moment aides point to as perhaps the first time he had spoken about these issues in such a personal, powerful way as president. A few months later, he publicly lamented the death of Trayvon Martin, a black Florida teenager, saying that “could have been me 35 years ago.”

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President Obama on Monday with Darinel Montero, a student at Bronx International High School who introduced him before remarks at Lehman College in the Bronx. Credit Stephen Crowley/The New York Times

That case, along with public ruptures of anger over police shootings in Ferguson and elsewhere, have pushed the issue of race and law enforcement onto the public agenda. Aides said they imagined that with his presidency in its final stages, Mr. Obama might be thinking more about what comes next and causes he can advance as a private citizen.

That is not to say that his public discussion of these issues has been universally welcomed. Some conservatives said he had made matters worse by seeming in their view to blame police officers in some of the disputed cases.

“President Obama, when he was elected, could have been a unifying leader,” Senator Ted Cruz of Texas, a Republican candidate for president, said at a forum last week. “He has made decisions that I think have inflamed racial tensions.”

On the other side of the ideological spectrum, some liberal African-American activists have complained that Mr. Obama has not done enough to help downtrodden communities. While he is speaking out more, these critics argue, he has hardly used the power of the presidency to make the sort of radical change they say is necessary.

The line Mr. Obama has tried to straddle has been a serrated one. He condemns police brutality as he defends most officers as honorable. He condemns “criminals and thugs” who looted in Baltimore while expressing empathy with those trapped in a cycle of poverty and hopelessness.

In the Bronx on Monday, Mr. Obama bemoaned the death of Brian Moore, a plainclothes New York police officer who had died earlier in the day after being shot in the head Saturday on a Queens street. Most police officers are “good and honest and fair and care deeply about their communities,” even as they put their lives on the line, Mr. Obama said.

“Which is why in addressing the issues in Baltimore or Ferguson or New York, the point I made was that if we’re just looking at policing, we’re looking at it too narrowly,” he added. “If we ask the police to simply contain and control problems that we ourselves have been unwilling to invest and solve, that’s not fair to the communities, it’s not fair to the police.”

Moreover, if society writes off some people, he said, “that’s not the kind of country I want to live in; that’s not what America is about.”

His message to young men like Malachi Hernandez, who attends Boston Latin Academy in Massachusetts, is not to give up.

“I want you to know you matter,” he said. “You matter to us.”

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Imagine an elite professional services firm with a high-performing, workaholic culture. Everyone is expected to turn on a dime to serve a client, travel at a moment’s notice, and be available pretty much every evening and weekend. It can make for a grueling work life, but at the highest levels of accounting, law, investment banking and consulting firms, it is just the way things are.

Except for one dirty little secret: Some of the people ostensibly turning in those 80- or 90-hour workweeks, particularly men, may just be faking it.

Many of them were, at least, at one elite consulting firm studied by Erin Reid, a professor at Boston University’s Questrom School of Business. It’s impossible to know if what she learned at that unidentified consulting firm applies across the world of work more broadly. But her research, published in the academic journal Organization Science, offers a way to understand how the professional world differs between men and women, and some of the ways a hard-charging culture that emphasizes long hours above all can make some companies worse off.

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Ms. Reid interviewed more than 100 people in the American offices of a global consulting firm and had access to performance reviews and internal human resources documents. At the firm there was a strong culture around long hours and responding to clients promptly.

“When the client needs me to be somewhere, I just have to be there,” said one of the consultants Ms. Reid interviewed. “And if you can’t be there, it’s probably because you’ve got another client meeting at the same time. You know it’s tough to say I can’t be there because my son had a Cub Scout meeting.”

Some people fully embraced this culture and put in the long hours, and they tended to be top performers. Others openly pushed back against it, insisting upon lighter and more flexible work hours, or less travel; they were punished in their performance reviews.

The third group is most interesting. Some 31 percent of the men and 11 percent of the women whose records Ms. Reid examined managed to achieve the benefits of a more moderate work schedule without explicitly asking for it.

They made an effort to line up clients who were local, reducing the need for travel. When they skipped work to spend time with their children or spouse, they didn’t call attention to it. One team on which several members had small children agreed among themselves to cover for one another so that everyone could have more flexible hours.

A male junior manager described working to have repeat consulting engagements with a company near enough to his home that he could take care of it with day trips. “I try to head out by 5, get home at 5:30, have dinner, play with my daughter,” he said, adding that he generally kept weekend work down to two hours of catching up on email.

Despite the limited hours, he said: “I know what clients are expecting. So I deliver above that.” He received a high performance review and a promotion.

What is fascinating about the firm Ms. Reid studied is that these people, who in her terminology were “passing” as workaholics, received performance reviews that were as strong as their hyper-ambitious colleagues. For people who were good at faking it, there was no real damage done by their lighter workloads.

It calls to mind the episode of “Seinfeld” in which George Costanza leaves his car in the parking lot at Yankee Stadium, where he works, and gets a promotion because his boss sees the car and thinks he is getting to work earlier and staying later than anyone else. (The strategy goes awry for him, and is not recommended for any aspiring partners in a consulting firm.)

A second finding is that women, particularly those with young children, were much more likely to request greater flexibility through more formal means, such as returning from maternity leave with an explicitly reduced schedule. Men who requested a paternity leave seemed to be punished come review time, and so may have felt more need to take time to spend with their families through those unofficial methods.

The result of this is easy to see: Those specifically requesting a lighter workload, who were disproportionately women, suffered in their performance reviews; those who took a lighter workload more discreetly didn’t suffer. The maxim of “ask forgiveness, not permission” seemed to apply.

It would be dangerous to extrapolate too much from a study at one firm, but Ms. Reid said in an interview that since publishing a summary of her research in Harvard Business Review she has heard from people in a variety of industries describing the same dynamic.

High-octane professional service firms are that way for a reason, and no one would doubt that insane hours and lots of travel can be necessary if you’re a lawyer on the verge of a big trial, an accountant right before tax day or an investment banker advising on a huge merger.

But the fact that the consultants who quietly lightened their workload did just as well in their performance reviews as those who were truly working 80 or more hours a week suggests that in normal times, heavy workloads may be more about signaling devotion to a firm than really being more productive. The person working 80 hours isn’t necessarily serving clients any better than the person working 50.

In other words, maybe the real problem isn’t men faking greater devotion to their jobs. Maybe it’s that too many companies reward the wrong things, favoring the illusion of extraordinary effort over actual productivity.

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